It doesn't? Damn. I'm so screwed.
I apologize for being a bit distracted the last couple of weeks. Between multiple job interviews and finally getting a job after nearly 9 months of unemployment, I've had a lot on my plate. My work schedule should allow me to raid most nights, and I'm working to get acclimated to my new schedule quickly so that I can be more responsive to raid situations than I have been the last couple of weeks.
That said, one problem that I've noticed more in recent weeks, is "defeatist" attitudes that seem to become more self-fulfilling prophecies. Lately, I've been hearing a lot of 'One more attempt then we'll go do something else' on something that I feel that we're making progress on, and that we have a chance of defeating. To me, that is like giving up. It seems to INVITE that last attempt to be a failure so people can get over the drudgery of wiping so we can go do something else... instead of pushing them forward to try to get over whatever wall or hump is holding us back. I understand that part of it is because the raid leads are afraid that if we keep banging against the wall, some people might get upset, but to that I say 'tough ######'. If you can't wipe, then you shouldn't be raiding. It's that simple.
Also, I think that part of the problem is boredom. We aren't making much progress, and I know that sometimes during trash pulls I've found myself looking at something shiny that isn't on my WoW screen. I doubt I'm the only one. Things seem less tedious if there is a new goal ahead than it does if it's just another night in Ulduar.
We never did get Sarth3D done. That is something we should have been able to do. To some, it was "just another achievement", but to others, it meant more. It meant accomplishment to some. It meant shiny new mounts for others. It meant shinier phat loots for even more people. But, what it should have meant for us all was that feeling we had the day we finally killed Vashj. A job well done, not another 'tedious' chore of an achievement.
I don't think it's too late, though, and I think Zuworty has the right idea in starting to set goals for this raid. I really look forward to raid nights, and I hope to be able to continue to do so in the future.
-Kadi
Lover of Volcanoes (especially green ones) and Scrunchies.