I've always stayed home with my kids. I've never looked at but anything but a privelege. I know my husband and I have sacrificed a lot in material ways to do it, but I've felt blessed I had a husband that saw it was important too. The kids came first. I have great kids so far. People are always asking how come my kids are so good and how do I know the words to those songs and ect etc. Yes I know every dinosaur name there is, I know the boy bands, I know the American Girl Dolls and have read every book!. how you think I got into this game? My oldest kid! hehe, the point is I'm in there lifes even if I have to push my way in, but it takes a lot of energy and I admire my friends that can do both, work and be involved. I'm too old and tired to do both!
I really think it's easier to stay home and be a full time mom, but at times it's lonely work and you can feel the world passing you by. If the husband isn't a great and supportive guy it's even harder.
Bottom line, the kids. I look it at this way, I gave birth to this kid, I owe it 18 years to give it wings.
*smiles*